A new study explores body image disorders in men, which appear to be on the rise. Body dysmorphic syndrome is fairly universal in adolescent girls and is largely based on a sense of being defective, along with fears of being rejected by women and not attractive to men. Psychotherapy is helpful as is getting involved in a sports activity, where performance matters more than appearance, as well as emphasizing career choices. This is less common in men, but some feel it is on the rise.
Men have traditionally based their self esteem on external success more than looks. Shifting social trends find fewer men pursuing higher education and it is now common for young adult women to out earn their counterparts. Women are also more comfortable in remaining single. Perhaps a thinner waist or bigger biceps will attract a good one!
Psychologically, body dysmorphic syndrome always represents a defective sense of self compensated for by focusing on body shape and appearance. We all want to be healthy and present well, but resolving inner conflicts must come first. The shifting social landscape is also effecting trends in ways never anticipated.